Keys to Compatibility
Trust, good communication and mutual respect are aspects of relationships that all personality types value highly. However, here are some special aspects that ESTJs report as being most important to them:

♦	Honesty and directness in all things.
♦	Understanding when it comes to my need 'to be in charge'!
♦	Strong motivation to get things done - the 'right' way.
♦	Decisiveness in thought and deed.
♦	A work hard - play hard mentality.
♦	Respect for order and tradition.

How to enrich your relationships

• Because you are so organised and practical, some people may see you as being rather impersonal.  It might be helpful for you to sometimes take more time to think about - and acknowledge - other people's feelings and point of view.
• It's natural for you to want to be in control.  Relax, you might find it interesting and exciting to let someone else be in the driving seat for a change.
• Don't be afraid to express your emotions as well as your intellect.  Let people know what you are feeling as well as thinking.
• You may tend to be rather sceptical about new or un-tested ideas.  That's OK. But you could be missing something really special.  Remember what Forest Gump's mother said - "Life is like a box of chocolates, You never know what you gonna get."

Broaden your horizons - get to know new people!